Pre-Retreat

Tuesday and Wednesday was the retreat for the hospice staff. We went to a place called Camp Faraway, not to be mistaken with Far Far Away. The retreat team consisted of Patty, Creely, Melanie, Tom D., Tod, Leigh Ann, and us (Jennifer and Amber).

We arrived to the camp a little early so that we could set up only to find that we had been beaten to the camp by the hospice staff! We got to set up for the retreat and after we finished we got to play impromtu games with the girls. Little did we know how competitive and aggressive these ladies are when it comes to playing games. Even games like Duck Duck Goose even though they don't say Duck Duck Goose.

Let's paint you a picture:

Twenty of us sitting in a circle outside on a beautiful day with the mountains in the background and our mascot, "the wild rooster" running amuck. The goal of the game is that one person has a ball and is walking in a circle behind all of us and at any point will drop the ball behind any given person. At that point, once that person has realized that they have the ball they have to get up as fast as they can and chase the other person around the circle. Here comes the South African version of Duck Duck Goose: instead of just tagging the person with the ball, you now have the option to chuck the ball at them. This proved to be quite dangerous (who knew that we needed to wear helmets). Let's give you an example of where a helmet could come in handy. As one lady was chasing another, she realized that she could not tag her before she returned to her spot. So out of desperation to win, she chucks the ball across the circle almost decapitating Amber's head. I (Jennifer) was a witness to this event and found it quite hilarious. Eventually, Amber did too.

Another game - what we will call Human Tug o' War. Here's how this game works: Two women pick between two food items for example Christmas Cake and Chocolate Cake. When you get up to them, they will ask you which one would you pick. Amber obviously picked Chocolate Cake and I picked Christmas Cake because that's the only word I understood. And this continues on with each woman until each team is built. Keep in mind these teams could be uneven if everyone picked the same kind of cake. But fortunately, it seemed to be even. Moving on to the actual physical part, the catch is you don't use a rope. You simply hang on to the person in front of you. The first person of each line tries to pull the other group across the line. Here's a picture of the end result:

We also played other games that included seeing "Auntie" Creely dancing to the baboon song. Here's a picture of that memorable moment:

We will be getting back to you with how the actual retreat turned out. Here's a sneak peek: It was a success.